Quick visit...
Anyhow, at one point in time, Grandpa had asked where his grandkids were and wanted to see us. Not knowing what his health issues would determine, I loaded up the kids and headed up to visit. When we first arrived at the hospital Sat. night, he was especially grumpy. Had an "episode", came out of it, then was more himself. Kaylee was worried when I'd explained that Grandpa was in the hospital again. She drew him a picture and was so pleased to get a smile from him. For a few minutes he was my Grandpa. Sunday morning he was having more "episodes", he didn't remember that we'd come the night before, or why he was there, or that he'd been "out". He just kept coming in and out of the catatonic states...when he was more alert he would shake hands with us, smile, stretch....
In the past Grandpa doesn't always remember who I am, this trip was the same except he said he recognized me but didn't know my name...regardless I remember who he is and love him for all that he has done. For the times he would grab us with his ultra strong toes and give a huge pinch, for the yummy treats he would make us (taro dumplings: wu gok; almond cookies; tong yuen;) the walks we would go on; going out to eat in China Town....so many memories...I don't know what the future will bring, but I'm glad we went for the visit...
Grandma seems to be doing well...I put in a few pictures of her eating oatmeal. Brenda says she'll eat an entire HUGE bowl at night sometimes...
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